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Hi Gang,

I know it’s been a couple of day’s, and although the work, life balance has got a little messed up this week, all in all it has been a good week..

Most of you will of caught my radio show yesterday, and I hope you enjoyed? I know that my ‘nutter’ friend was locked in also?  And based on a social media feed, doesn’t to rate our station? Or maybe it’s just my show? Either way, be assured my sleep pattern hasn’t been effected!

Now, we have the members section in action, and working, I did say I would make the odd post public, and I left a couple of things unsaid?  I was asked what was removed from my initial blog? What was edited, was the matters with regards to the ‘nutters’ arrest! The police wanted to spare any embarrassment, as the ‘nutter’ has a tendency, to get in the face of officer’s, even though they suffer from anxiety? Anyway, a couple of days later, the ‘nutter’ mentioned it herself, hence putting it out there, again I am not going to mention it, and my reasoning for removing it? Was clearly this person’s family isn’t aware of the circumstances, which led to the arrest? And I get satisfaction from doing so, that time will come!   I have chosen not to play that game?

I used this blog, as for years the story has been very one sided! My wife and I said little!  However, we were ill advised! We should have fought back, many years ago? As this has allowed this person to go without being fact-checked!  Not 1 person has been willing to come to court to support any of her claims? Not 1 person! There have been lots of screenshot’s, and emails? Not 1 person? Her ex-partner had confirmed that she was being untrue in her stories? And had confirmed such to the police 6 years ago? Claims I gave her PTSD? I had to google it too? but yet not a day goes by, that you don’t post something about me or my wife? As I said, I had to google it!  Trust me, it’s not a symptom? It is however a symptom of something else… which isn’t far off ‘nutter’!

The above is just a drop in the ocean, You may well have had your bit’s taken out? And we should be grateful for that, however that didn’t stop you from pretending to not only be pregnant, but went on to produce a bouncing baby girl? or was it? Either way it’s all about credibility, so I am told, after all I had a past, and therefore a judge is unlikely to believe me? There may be some truth in that? I would like to think that all men, and women are treated equally under the law? But let’s look at that, as its valid?

As I stated above the case consist’s of a lot of emails, screenshot’s and for that, you want..  £100k I shit you not? I am going to say this now… If I had £100k, I give it to the homeless before i gave it to some ‘nutter’..  Secondly, I laughed it off, at first, then I gave it to my lawyer, who made sure it went to the police? So that meant, either get nicked for blackmail or the like, or sue me?

Now, I need to let those of you, who are unaware of my past, that this is illegal, and ironically, what put me in a cell? This to a criminal, is called ‘Coming on top’?  So you back off, as the consequences of playing it out, are risky.. Granted, if you was sneaky, you could lodge papers, and hope that your papers slip through, and you get a judgement in your favour, without the other side knowing? You every have a bailiff come round for a parking fine? Well the parking company, got a judgement, in your absence?

I wouldn’t fall for that?? But here’s a funny thing that happened? It got sent to the wrong address? But clearly while high on some medication, attempted to withdraw the claim? Very important that.. Claimant.. But, I had contacted the court, as I had seen the papers on facebook (nutters tend to do that). And they helpfully sent me the papers, and a counterclaim form.   What did you think I did? Fuck yeah, counterclaim for £201K!  I . hear you laughing.. Thats not the funny bit? I am being sued, so took it to my solicitor? He’s still laughing.. But he said, it’s a win-able!  Understand this.. Ask any solicitor in the country, if he or she can guarantee you a win? They will say, thats would be unethical? As shit can happen? He went as far as to say, I am not even going to charge you to write your counterclaim… You do it, and when the court has it, we will take over, as it’s the craziest thing they have ever seen? Then the ‘nutter’ got arrested, and made a, and I quote ‘She made a full and frank confession in front of her solicitor’?

So where does this leave our ‘nutter’? Well, there is a pool running? Crazy or not, you are not going to want to appear in open court, she never turned up for the last hearing, nor did they appeal the wife’s injunction? So you must agree that the injunction is valid and righteous, but not the story you tell, you say.. stuck in traffic, well we have a sat-nav too, and you would have made it, with time to have breakfast before the hearing? Now, I neglected to mention.. On one of the case’s, an Ex-partner is an ‘interested party’ fuck knows what that is, guess he wants a cut? That’s interesting? When was the last time you saw him? Full and frank confession?

Here’s the current state of play… All papers are with the court, plus the recent additions.  Unlike the claimant, I have that 1 person, and I have a ‘nutter’, as my witness’s.  Your own words, written under caution, kills everything you have ever said, posted, emailed? and the other, any officer from TVP with a radio, or the judge can pick up a phone?

Now, dear reader, don’t think that I am sitting here gloating? A month, or two ago, I would have settled for her, just shutting up? As most people don’t give two hoot’s about my past, and if you ask, I will tell you, not from pride, but as a lesson! But as I sit here a write, I believe that nothing is likely to stop her, yeah the injunction, has slowed her, but unless they bang her up,  it will only start to hit her pocket, at first! As everyone gets a warning, I also have papers in front of another judge to deal with that.    But all in all, it is a long, and expensive process.  And I make no bones about that fact, so thats why these people get away, with what they do? And with knife crime, and county lines, and the . fact that they are 20,000 light, it’s not a priority for the boys in blue.  Although they have made progress with our case.  And had not the ‘nutter’ not taken me to court, it would have cost me a fortune to take her to court, granted she has ‘universal credit’ to aid her, but those of use who have to earn ours! Expect to spend £10k minimum, and then you win?  Then you have to chase to collect? Although, we all love and episode of ‘Can’t pay,  we take it away’? If I say, it’s not about the money, would you believe me? A tenner for a cocktail, at Le Club, would be nice! But the only way to end this is to first air this in open court, and secondly tell my story?

I am not alone, and I am not her only victim.. And I have found by talking about it? I am not alone, some of you also have a ‘Nutter’, granted I haven’t met one to out do mine? and I hope that there isn’t another! But, there is no glory, no karma, my wife would like to bring back hanging, for some of the comments she has had to put up with, and things said about her dead mother, and for the record? The is no inheritance? And did you not google ‘probate’? You seem to google everything else? You should also be aware that google is only as smart as the idiot, inputting the search?

I don’t want anyone to see this as a rant, far from it.. in the coming weeks, I will have . a few of those, as we draw closer to the election! But as I said I wanted to outline the position, before I complete the gallery in the ‘Members Only’ Section.  So that everything makes sense, and has its timeline, and you the reader can work it out.

We screen all comments, so that you can post without fear of ridicule, or the ‘nutter’ contacting you, and as per normal, the police will get a call, as she will feel that in some way, I have in some way offend her? Like last time, for one of my other posts.. Save you a call, been checked, and approved by our legal team, but you love to call? But might I make a suggestion? Don’t slag of the police, or courts.. It give them a poor impression of you? And you need some friends? As the few you do have, seem to be equally deluded? And could find themselves in the same cells, as you recently visited?

I am going to close now, and give the wife the hug, she deserves…  I wish you all a blessed weekend, and I know YOU got papers today? I don’t care what you do next, I really don’t? I don’t care what your next story is? Or how you decide to cover your arse, or who you pass the blame onto (I saw that?).   I really don’t care, you have made me not care? I want, what you say you have always wanted, to be on the other side of the court facing me? Bingo, you got your wish!!  But it’s not going to play out how you envisage?  So bring along the family? Bring your Man?  Not that one? We know he dumped you long ago, hence the boredom? Yes, like you, no unlike you? We do our research, and gather our facts, hence the difficulties you now find yourself?

I want you to laugh after reading this, as that seems to be the norm for you.  But to anyone else reading this, will be thinking something completely different.

YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO? (And for once.. Knock yourself out! fill your boots!)

 

HOLLA AT ME!!

PS: The wife is still alive!!  Still singing!! Baby shark today??

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Hi Gang,

Today will be an interesting blog, and I have had to really think about this blog.. A little more than others.  After publishing yesterdays blog, I was contacted by the police, as my posting had clearly upset someone! The complaint was not that my post was untrue? It was that, my post mentioned a fact, that wasn’t previously made public! How did I know? Well although I had in no way done, what was suggested! And I do not want to do anything to hinder this persons prosecution.  I amended the post! It should be stated that although it was suggested!  I was not asked to edit the post!  I chose to do so.

Now, to prevent such an issue arising again, and I know that yesterdays post produced lots’ of feedback, and you seem to want to be kept up to date on the ‘Nutter’ situation.

So we have decided to create a ‘Members Only’ Section on this site.   This will be a free subscription section. This is currently a public domain, and I intend it to remain so, however, a ‘Nutter’ has called into question, some of the things I have said in the past, and the previous blog post.

I put myself in the public eye, due to my job.  I therefore have to take the rough with the smooth, when it comes to talking about my past, family, and future.  I to a degree am fair game, and if it’s the truth!  I can’t cry about it, I have to suck it up, and move on.  My past isn’t a secret! I have written about it! But the Lies! I have had enough!

I can back up everything that I have said on these pages, and we are going to create a section and show a gallery of postings!  This will be members only, and will not be made public, until confirmation from our legal team.

Subscribers must be a member of my Facebook friends list! To help the vetting process.

I am no longer going to defend myself, and this person had an opportunity to stop? And hasn’t because they don’t know how to? A lawyer told my wife, this is unlikely to stop, until we take certain steps! We are in the process of completing those!  So with that in mind we shall only be posting stuff from Facebook, which has already been in the public domain, we shall just put them in order, and context. Documents are copies and again in the public domain, as some ‘Nutter’ chose to post them. We have chosen not to use any third party documentation at this stage! Let’s not get into to the he said, she said?

Black and white readable facts! Then you decide? As we can’t keep up!

There are nearly 2000 subscribers of this page, and over 4000 on my Facebook page, so some will gain access, quicker than others, so please bear with us.

I will continue to post the blog in the public section of this page, but members will be allowed full access to the site, alongside some new extra features.

You know what to do? (Tell your hairdresser!)

 

HOLLA AT ME!!

 

JJ

PS:  The Wife is alive…  And singing for some reason?

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Hi Gang,

I know it’s been a while… So lot’s to catch up on! So kettle on and click the link for some tunes BBR

World Cup, Brexit, Soulful Sundaes, to name but a few are the topic, we are going to cover.  First up Brexit.. I saw my old mate Danny Dyer on Television, giving his opinion on Brexit, which went viral, and basically, I can’t help but agree with him at every turn.  No matter what side of the argument you are on? Leave or Remain! Your not going to get what you want, and in the mist of it all is a great big mess? And Danny is right? Where is David Cameron! In France, with his trotters up! Darn right! but he is right… What a twat!  David Cameron had the opportunity, as Prime Minister to go to Europe, and said.. We want, and if you don’t give us.. We will leave! And on the result of the Referendum, I have a feeling, he would have got us a great deal, and we would be having our cake and eat it! Instead, and I am going to say it, because Danny couldn’t on National Telly! We are Fucked!! Let’s not make any bones about it, we are in deep shit!

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In the last 2 years since the referendum, We as a country have spent Billions, working out how we are going to get out? Without making the country bankrupt? Good luck with that.. Teresa!  Now we all remember that famous £350 Million!  Let’s for a minute, say it exists? The cheapest solution to the Irish Boarder Situation? Would Cost £25 Billion, Yep £25 Billion.. for a £350 million a year saving! You do the math!  Some of the issue’s prior to the referendum was immigration.. That has dropped, mainly from Non-Europeans! and Europeans, has not only dropped, but people leaving the country has increased! mainly Europeans.  One of the concerns of Brexit, is that immigrants, have been the backbone of the country for so many years, that the lack off, or the loss of, does not in-fact create more jobs for British people, because they were the jobs, that Brit’s didn’t want to do! Anyone fancy working 10 hours on a chicken farm, or picking fields in Kent, for 10 hours, on your hands and knees.. Hell No!

Everyone keeps telling me, about getting our boarders back, and control of trade! Sounds good.. But let’s take a look at that.. President Trump, is in the middle of a trade war, and We think that he will do us a favour, by giving us Tariff free access to his US Market? Is that ‘Putting America first‘? I think not, so I can’t see any sweet deals for us? And if there is… What does America have, that we can’t get cheaper, and quicker from Europe? Even with a new Tariff agreement.. After all we are going to get a good deal?

Our Boarders.. Like America, we can dictate, who we let into the country… Even with freedom of movement rules! I will explain…  AT EVERY UK BOARDER THERE IS A SIGN! “We have the right to refuse entry into the UK… TO ANYONE”!  We have control of our Boarders! WE CHOOSE NOT TO!! FACT!!

The final point from the referendum, was our Parliament being in control, and not a bunch of bureaucrats in Brussels.. Fair and interesting point!  Have you ever watched our parliament?  Nuff Said! And let look at some of those rules.. We know the bent Bananas was a joke! So how bad are these rules? And some of the counties having to suffer these rules! I can only talk from personal experience, but I am sure you will see my point, if you have travelled round Europe. Holland, Rotterdam, Spain, Germany, France, Italy, to name a few, each have their problems, but as far as I can see the laws, and rules that those Bureaucrats have put in place, seem to have done each of those countries as service, and each of them, have managed to negotiate favourable terms, while inside the EU!

I am going to leave this topic, for now, and I am sure over coming weeks we will no doubt have to revisit it, but I am praying that Prime Minister Dyer, get’s in and sorts this mess out.. and in his words.. ‘Soon As‘.

Onwards!

World Cup fever is upon us.. And I for one am loving every minute, it have been the only thing that has keep my eye off the Premier League transfer market.. (Come on West Ham, few more players in).  But this World Cup, in Russia has been the first time I have been able to truly believe, we could actually win the thing! Fingers crossed, and not wanting to ‘jinx’ things I will leave the subject there for now… Save to say.. Come on England!!

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Summer is here!

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Last weekend we launched ‘Soulful Sundaes’, Boogie Bunker Radio’s Summer Event.  Held in the Glorious Seaside town of Herne Bay, Kent.  We Take over the Central Bandstand, with our partners Makcaris Ice Cream Parlour!  We bring an afternoon of across the board Soul & Dance music, with a hint of Reggae!  We had great weather, and a great crowd throughout the day.  We shall be back every Sunday, as Well as Saturday 11th August for the Famous Herne Bay Carnival, when we will have some extra special guest joining us.

So why not come and join us for a day at the seaside, and some great music. Free entry throughout the Summer!

Finally

This week on the family front, hasn’t been great, NO! The wife is very much alive... But her Mother has been unwell, and it has put a strain on the family, as a whole.  My wife is a little bundle of energy, as many of you know? But with hospital visits, and the worry, it does have its effect all round.  I unlike most am very pragmatic, and to some very strong and capable.  Which to a degree I am, I am a good businessman, and run a successful business, which I built from scratch.  But there are days, that my wife puts me to shame!  She has been exhausted, but each day, she gets up, and brushes her teeth, and gets ready for another day, of more unknown.  Yes, there have been tears, and couple of nights of waking up, in her clothes.. Where I have pulled the covers, over her corpse!  I have had to cope with a couple of ‘Bitch‘ moments, but I can take all that, because I look at my wife, with great pride.  My admiration for how she has coped is immense, and I hate to say it… I am a lucky guy, to have such a loving & caring person by my side.. And if anyone tells her, they are a dead person!

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You know what to do?

 

HOLLA AT ME!

JJ.

 

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Hi Gang,

As you can see from the title, we are gearing up for a holiday weekend.  The blog recently has focused on some of the issues, which effect our day to day live’s in the UK.  I wanted to talk about my day to day life, and running a Radio Station, and DJ, as well as an insight into my family life!  However, I have to save something for the book! So you will have to make do with, all the boring stuff!!

It’s Festival Season in the UK, and most of those which are held outside! You buy a ticket in the hope of good weather.  Now that may seem a risky prospect in the UK, with our inclement weather conditions, but those are the risks.  Now this can become a double edged sword, as you try and play safe, and opt for events which have both inside and outside facilities?  I this year am taking a risk by announcing the day of our annual BBQ!

I figured if we used the Royal wedding day! They would of at least check the long range forecast, from sources better than the BBC? We are talking Royalty! And they have an open Carriage bit, so they must know something we don’t!! Well fingers crossed, to anyone who is planning to take in a festival this year.  I will be attending one or two, although not trying to sound like a snob, I only try and attend those that offer VIP facilities! Brother has to have some standards.

I am just over 3 weeks away from returning to Tenerife (Spain), for a few show’s with the team from BBR, from the UK & Tenerife.  I have been going to Tenerife for around 30 years on and off, and my wife and I have made some great friends on the island over the years.  I have made it no secret of my intention to settle on the island, and see out my days, drinking cocktails with the wife.  Who doesn’t? But you have to look at things, that you never previously considered. Be assured our decision making isn’t on a whim!  We have no children, that live at home! They have lives, and make their own choices, we are just here to support, and offer an alternative perspective, to our children’s nonsense?

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The issue for us… Is time! We both work, and have busy lives!  West Ham at a weekends, and family & friends in-between.  And then their is our dog!  Granted she is pushing on, but it’s like having a child, she needs to be fed and watered! and even she has here ways, and routines!  Granted we look at a lot of property online, but that doesn’t really cut it.  And after a few trip’s which saw very little new come to the market, we went to plan B!!

Why not find a bit of land, and build what we want! Which solves all our problems, but going to find a ideal piece of land, has proved equally as difficult as our property search, so Plan C, has come into effect! I will let you know what that is in the coming weeks… When the wife, tells me!

Onward!

It is expected that we shall have great weather for the holiday weekend? I have already given you my thoughts on the weather in the UK.  Now anyone who doesn’t hold with the theory of global warming, come and live here! Beast from the East will soon have you changing your mind?  We name weather fronts, in the UK!

I am hoping that I will be able to wear a pair of shorts, before I return to Tenerife?  I am savourily lacking in vitamin D, or B, or Both!

Have a great weekend!

HOLLA AT ME!

 

JJ

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Hi Gang,

My last blog about the ‘Windrush Generation’ draw a few raised eyebrows from certain quarters, this blog is going to require a diaper for some!! Hold tight!

I woke this morning to see Nigel Farage, and some young black guy debating St Georges day, which it happens to be today.  For those of you who do not know who Saint George is well I will give you a quick run down.. First he was Turkish, and their were no dragons, and your going to have to trust me on that one! So he is about as English, as St Patrick was Irish? (He wasn’t Irish?).  Nigel Farage was saying we should celebrate today, and the English flag!

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Now some in the UK, will be slightly confused by the above image, some will note that it doesn’t have the words ‘ENGLAND’ or bear ‘THREE LIONS’

Now it’s the patron saint of England’s day, so why would there be a debate about this day, and the flag.  I key reason is why Nigel Farage, who has some very radical views, on immigration, and we can say very Pro-Brexit!  Also Parties, like his former party BNP have used this flag in a very right-wing context.  The defunct ‘National Front’ made this flag a symbol for their party, and for those who shared their beliefs, and parties, of the same ilk have used the flag also in a similar fashion.  So it was logical, and more-so this week when we again learn more from the Government with regards the ‘Windrush’ debacle.  I shall say this, and end the ‘Windrush’ debate! Our current Government, can try to pass the buck, and say that they are not at fault.. Bullshit! Regardless, of lost/destroyed Landing cards, or anything else…

In the last 40 plus years, there have been at least 5 Census’s, at which stage everyone gives details which, will have been more than sufficient to clarify any status, or the fact of Citizenship? Or is that too easy… So Mrs May, you can no longer dodge the bullet.. Just fix it, and compensate the people involved.

Back to the Flag and the Turk! As I explained above, there has been very little for ethnic minorities to see today, that they should be flying this flag, from the top of their homes.  Now people around the world, may find this whole situation a little odd.. So I shall explain for those of you who live in a normal country with one flag..

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Great Britain is made up of England, Northern Ireland, Scotland & Wales.  No the dragon on the Welsh Flag has nothing to do with George’s Dragon.. I did point this out earlier! never the less.  A black Scotsman (yeah, there are black ones there). Can wear his flag with pride! As could a Welshman, and yes indeed, there are Black Paddy’s whom can also fly their National flag with pride! Now picture this.. Me walking down Brixton High Street waving an English Flag. I am not too sure, who would give me a beating first.. But rest assured the ‘Brothers’ Wouldn’t be best pleased!!

I want to make it very clear, I was born in England, and within the sound of Bow Belles. which makes me more of a Londoner than ‘Jim Davison’ and more to the point, more of an Englishman than Nigel Farage! But much as I would like to celebrate this flag, and what it should stand for in my country, unfortunately I cannot celebrate the day!  Much as I am grateful for all the dragon slaying! It doesn’t take away from the fact that I am British, and until the people of England, take back their flag, so that all creeds, colours, and races, can pick up the flag, and wave it in celebration of being English regardless of Colour.  Being British is the best we can hope for! My passport say’s British Citizen, Not English National, and my pride for my country isn’t based on a flag! But a belief that being British means something around the World, Being English, is a statement!

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Now, I know some are going to say that I am letting the racist win, far from it.. I have had to deal with people who see this flag as a racist symbol, for most of my life. And I see it in different connotations, every Saturday at West Ham’s Stadium? I have also be in the old stadium, when the flag was used as a warning that although we would suffer Black players, Black fans where a step too far.. Unless you could punch a skinhead or too!  Those days thankfully are over (ish).  But the memories are still fresh for some, I remember this same flag being burned by people, who saw it as a symbol of the National Front!

I am proud to be British, and it’s not a status I would give up lightly.  Am I am happy to fly the Union Jack from my flag pole! But when it comes to celebrating my English Heritage, I am going to have to pass on that one.  And many of my community feel the same way, and if you ask the question the reason will be the same? Try it? You don’t need too!! You know I am right, and that’s the shame.

St George’s day, should be a national holiday, but until you we take back our flag 60% of England, won’t be able to celebrate the day.

Comments below…

You know what to do..

HOLLA AT ME!!

 

JJ.