There are times in your life when you have to take a sharp intake of breath, and maybe . even pinch yourself to check that you are living on planet earth, or in some alternative universe which is only inhabited by crazy people! I have spent the last few years dealing with such a person, and it is getting closer to the time when I will be able to tell the whole story, and name the person in question.
We have spent the last few days in our home in Tenerife, that in itself is something which we have been unable to make the most of, as our ‘Nutter’ had tried to damage our businesses and reputation there. Meanwhile, back in UK we had been working on fighting back against this person. We have 1 injunction in place, 1 currently in front of . the Courts, We have 2 Civil Counterclaims before a Judge, and there is a criminal case, for which she (Nutter) is currently on Police Bail. We are not far off £15k in legal fee’s and I am sure there is a few more quid to be spent, before the New Year. Before we can start to recover our loses! But, this has gone beyond money, this has gone beyond anything anyone can imagine.
Some people think I married into money? That’s not true, in fact it is so far from the truth, many will be amazed at the reality. It’s true that my wife is part of a family business’ but anyone who knows anything about business, and for information purposes! My wife’s mother had a share in a company! But it’s not BT! And the wife takes home a salary, as an employee end of. We have over the last few years created our own business’ for which we have both worked hard to get off the ground, and make a success. We never asked for any help, or assistance, and I work very hard for what I have and my wife works, her share too. Millionaire’s we are not, and if a time comes that we manage to achieve that status, it will be through our hard work, and endeavours which has got us, to this place in our lives.
Our ‘Nutter’ recently claimed that I hadn’t paid my court fee’s with regards a counterclaim against her? It cost more in fee’s to get an injunction? We are going for 2, So why would I not pay the fee’s? Me thinks someone behind a desk, doesn’t like you! And then there is that injunction? It wasn’t appealed? Why not? Or was it you could not? You call this blog the rants of a ‘Delusional’. But where have I, or my wife Lied? About what? You never say what we lied about? But we have called you on all yours, and the police have put you straight on the rest! But yet we are still liar’s? Where? Everyone seems to be conspiring against you? Are you really that special? That everyone is ganging up on you? We are all wrong, except you? Surely, that can not be possible? Judge’s, Police, CPS, and Uncle Tom Cobbly, and all!! It’s not only, not possible, it’s not plausible!
I have a friend who knows of the case, and he is convinced! Your defence will include the need for a ‘Rubber Room’! But I disagree! Yeah, I call you the ‘Nutter’ as although there is a medical term for people like you. But, you’re not nuts? Far from it? You told a lie, and from that lie, you needed to tell another! And then shit, starts to snowball, and before you know it, you’re living that lie. Then the lie starts unravel, and you try and shift the blame, Ex Boyfriend! Friend! Heard it on facebook, so it must be true? Anything to shift the blame.
I get all that, and this is going to sound crazy, but I empathise with that plight, and for why? The holes you are now digging lead to prison, and prison is a place, that I wouldn’t wish on an enemy. And that includes you? Rubber Room maybe, but prison sucks! Big time! But I continue, those holes lead to a dark place, and I am not talking about anything which you are currently find yourself bailed. These days, almost all government forms, contain a declaration, from benefits, to court forms, in fact most formal documents have a legal declaration that many of us take for granted. I am someone who is well aware of such declarations, and I wouldn’t recommend to anyone to breach any of those declarations. Granted some are taken less seriously than others, but some they can get . really pissed off if breached.
I tell people how much my life has changed over the years, and I have to admit at times, this whole situation has gotten the better, of both me, and my wife, and we have a few pissed family members too. But nothing will get in the way of bringing this to an end! I am returning to the UK, to Vote and see you answer to the court, and police. I want you and your fantasy ‘Partner’, to keep on laughing! I want you to keep digging, and I want you to turn up, and face us!
Come to Court tell your story, yes we have heard it! But you keep saying you want your day in court? It’s been set! All you need do is attend? Simple as that? What do you have to lose? It’s a Court, so you get your press coverage, you get your day, to tell it all? I know that you have already told everyone, but maybe you missed someone? Bring your Documentary makers, and the journalist who you have on the story? It’s an open court all are welcome! We are ready, we have been for some time.
You live in a world where data protection doesn’t exist, either that or those that follow your postings, believe that it has no existence. You pick up the phone, and government departments, just tell you over the phone? You can get CPS on the phone, and forward you documents? Records get sent to you? who do you think you are fooling? You belittle police, and Judge’s, and threaten their job’s, because they don’t agree with you? Bet it won’t stop you calling? Has it not sunk in… They are not the problem? You are? You got yourself into the mess you are in? And in that messed up head of yours you think that you have nothing to lose? You said you have nothing? So sue me? Trust me, it has never been about the money, but I will say this? Everyone say, I am skint, so sue!
I am a businessman, and I am aware that thats not exactly true! So let’s see what the Judgement is and go from there? My paperwork is back with the Court! In fact it was back within 24 hours, so I have no idea what your going on about? But bless your heart for worrying about our financial situation, but rest assured we wouldn’t need to take out a loan to cover our fee’s. How about you now cough up yours? At least that way we will have £20k of yours in the kitty? Guess you will ask your ‘Partner’ for assistance?? Wherever he may be? Strange he missed your Birthday, and your Anniversary? How supportive? Maybe he is saving his appearance for Court? We are so looking forward to seeing him? Guess you will be too?
You talk about leagues.. Premiership darling! We have made sure that our cases are airtight, we have all our ducks in a row, and have been waiting for the day to come, in fact I have never been so excited to attend a court. There is an irony in that statement, but it’s so god damn true. The wife has got an outfit, and I know you will have a snide comment for that, and good for you! But I bet you don’t forget what she was wearing? Nor the handbag (she didn’t have to wait until Christmas, nor ponce it of someone! As stated above, she got a Job).
Finally, And I hope that all our cards are on the table. You have our paperwork, you have all you need to bring your case to court. Leave all those screenshots, dodgy documents at home, and I know you can’t bring any witness’ as they either do not exist, or for some reason not will to go and make a signed affidavit, to assist you? Your partner went AWOL when needed? We haven’t seen any medical diagnosis? Or evidence. Which leaves pretty much a farce, and you still needing to bring a lot to the table, to even get into the court?
However! I am here to save the day! To insure that you get your day in court, cos that’s the kind of guy I am! My Counterclaim! Regardless of what you chose to do, or not do? I have 2 Counterclaims, which you must answer! So rest assured I will insure that you have your day out? You may have to travel? Should you fail to attend? I think the letter say’s, something about a Judgement being issued in your absence?? Blah, Blah!
In the last few weeks since I restarted this blog, and I want to say now, It won’t always be about this ‘Nutter’, there are lot’s of other things that go on in my life, which have far more substance than this topic, but in writing about this, I realised that we were not alone, Granted I knew that others shared my ‘Nutter’ as she is that sort of person. But from others around the UK, and further afield!
These people exist, there are people out there with time on their hands, and the ‘Devil will always find work, for idle hands’ (Thanks for that pearl, Mum!). Burger didn’t have enough onion, so all Mcdonalds are the enemy! Neighbour blocked your drive, so you build a wall! Then there are those that go to the extreme. See others living there lives happy, and look at how shit theirs is, and will do everything to destroy that.. We all have that ‘green eyed monster’ in us, some have better control over it than others.
Understand this!! What this ‘Nutter’ accused me of, I would never have gone to jail for? This was never an issue? As before I ever found out about it? Others had cleared me before I was ever asked a question. These are proven facts! I was never arrest, nor even questioned in relation to this allegation made over 8 years ago? I state again, OTHERS Cleared me, before I was ever asked a question? I can NOW state further, 2 of those people, were questioned… Before… She made her allegation? Are we all starting to get the picture?? Hence I was never questioned!! 1 of those people told me? Had they not? To this day, I would have never known about it!
Now, I ask you.. Can such a case be reopened? In fact what is there to reopen? Thats why it has never been opened in the first place? Do you want to know another reason, it will never be reopened? It’s fiction, a figment! It also not the first such allegation? Why are you not calling for that one to be reopened? You’re either really unlucky? Or you’re a Magnet for stupid black men? As we all seem to end up on your shit list, for whatever reason? Sussed you out, so that list won’t grow any longer.
I am willing to help anyone who finds themselves in a similar position, and make sure that these people, are brought to bare, and to a stop. I won’t lose another sleepless night over this person, and I hope and pray that they either find Jesus, or a Life? You’re not getting mine, and far from breaking me and my wife! Each snide comment gives me new ways to love my wife? You once said you pity her? Have you seen her life?
You have gone from law abiding, to old bill knocking you up at 4am. It must really hurt when you got cautioned? I say it my head!! I am having it put in our Christmas crackers (more irony!) this year, so everyone can say it around the table! The whole speech.. My favourite bit is the end? ‘Do you understand!’ That shit tends to wake you up at 4am.. Been there!
So although your festivities may be a tad sparse this year, due to circumstances. Know this… You will bring a whole new meaning to CRACKERS, this Christmas around our table.
YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO? (I double dare you?)
HOLLA AT ME!
PS: The wife is alive, She said she talking to the Sheriff? This is not the Wild West? So no one got shot!! See you in Court!